In my own work, I've found books to be an enormous ally, especially when combined with therapy or other spiritual practices. Here are some of my favorites and standbys.


A Good Yarn


Building a Strong Marriage


Addiction and Recovery

Men & Masculinity 



If you're struggling with addiction, or think you might be, there's free help available immediately. 12-Step meetings are all over the area. I often work in tandem with 12-step, and the combination of therapy and a 12-step fellowship is very powerful.